The Self-Martyr Test

How to Know If Your Language Is Subconsciously Telling Your Boss & Coworkers That You’ll Settle for Less (Costing You Influence Over Decisions, the Ability to Say No, and Control of Your Own Future)

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Plus Six Other Workplace Mysteries Finally Explained:

The Cloak of Invisibility

Do you feel invisible in your own life? Well, is your language prompting everyone to ignore what you say? (While the worst ideas you’ve ever heard play out exactly as the prophecy foretold.)

The Mental Situationship

Are you quietly undermining your best ideas because you’re not confident that they’re “the one?” (We’ll tell you why you can’t commit and why it’s holding you back.)

The Homestead Fantasy

Do you really want to drop everything, move to the middle of nowhere, and start growing tomatoes, or are you simply burned out? (I promise you, raccoons are the devil.)

The Fred Flintstone

Are you a big thinker, capable of leading a company into the future, or are you somehow stuck in the Stone Age without realizing it? (Yes, we can measure that.)

The Black Belt in Aikido

Are you seen as a master deflector by the people around you, dodging accountability like a character from The Matrix, or are you viewed as someone who takes responsibility?

The Million Dollar Question

As a woman, how do you present yourself as a leader? Super aggressive b*tch, weak and emotional, or perfectly balanced? (And if you have a female boss, are you being abused?)

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